What to do when your child wants to quit Taekwon-Do

I wanted to quit Taekwon-Do as a Green Belt… 😯⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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At some stage every Taekwon-Do student will not want to go training! Trust me, it’s inevitable for every student!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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For me, I was a green belt and really enjoyed Taekwon-Do still but that summer the weather was good and football ⚽️ with my friends outside was more tempting than getting on my Taekwon-Do uniform and leaving the fun.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Luckily for kids they mostly live in the present moment unlike adults who live more in the future or the past, but that’s also a challenge 😅⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Today most young kids (as are adults) are surrounded by the abundance of Dopamine fueled activities more than ever before.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Be it…YouTube, Tablets, PlayStation, Playing With Friends, Favourite TV shows etc… 🥳⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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It’s no wonder they don’t want to leave it and go put on their Taekwon-Do uniform. 🥋⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Luckily for me, my parents really saw the benefits of Taekwon-Do training and the discipline of dedicating to train consistently.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Any real rewards in anything we do come from a long term dedication of time and effort.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Everytime parents tell me, “I’m finding it hard to get them to training”. 90% of the time I dont see that same reluctance in the kids when they are at training.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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There are usually 3 answers; ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
1️⃣ – They aren’t enjoying Taekwon-Do — > Fair 👍⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
2️⃣- They are lazy & prefer being in their comfort zone — > Get Training 👊 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
3️⃣- They aren’t happy to leave a Dopamine fueled activity –> Solution Below 👇⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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It’s worth noting, are they really fed up of Taekwon-Do or are they just not too keen on leaving a Dopamine fueled activity? 🤔⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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🔑 Here’s a good test… time any chores or homework to take place before its time to get ready for training.

If your still getting the same reaction, then absolutely its probably time to try something new.

However, if you see a difference in the reaction you’ll know the real problem 😉

Outdoor Training Starting in April

We are returning to outdoor training from April 27th

As per Government announcement at the start of the month, juveniles are allowed to return to outdoor non – contact training from April 26th.

We have secured slots at Carrigtwohill All Weather Facility on Tuesdays & Thursdays for our students.

All students must book in for sessions!

Info has just been sent out via email & WhatsApp. If anyone hasn’t recieved a booking link let, please let us know.

Places will be allocated to current members first, with any spaces opening up then allocated to potential new beginners looking to join.

Look forward to seeing everyone very soon 😀😀

How our academy builds self esteem in youths

How does training in Taekwon-Do help build self esteem in children? I see it time and time again, a shy young kid comes to our classes to gain confidence within themselves. It is great to see the transformation in children from when they first join to a few months/years later, it’s incredible. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Where does this develop from? Our programs are designed to continuously challenge students in a safe environment. With this comes evidence that they can overcome any challenge with the correct attitude and mindset. Confidence is essentially based on evidence. Those who consistently challenge themselves gradually build more self esteem to go conquer any challenge that comes their way. It’s fantastic to see the difference in some children who walk through our doors following this process and this certainly spills over into life outside the training hall. 👊💪⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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